Church Wedding
Flowers – Fragrance of Love and Affection
A
flower also referred to as a bloom or blossom is one which everybody likes
because of its beauty and fragrance. Flowers are used around the world
for a wide variety of events and functions from new births and christenings
to Weddings and bon voyage parties. Each flower has specific meaning marking
any occasion or just conveying a message.
Flowers
found their place to convey messages right from the 17th century, when
Turkey secret messages were conveyed by sending flowers with each one having
a special meaning. In 1700s, this Turkish way of using flowers entered
into Europe. Symbolically arranged or coded bouquets are used to communicate
feelings of attraction, love and affection. It has become a tradition to
have floral decorations in weddings.
In Church
Weddings, the most obvious flowers of the day are generally carried by
the Bride and Bridesmaids. Apart from these main flowers, buttonhole flowers
are used by men including the Father of the bride and page boys. These
buttonhole flowers always match with those of the bouquets and should always
be pointing upwards. Corsages are for the Mothers of the couple and the
colors of the corsage flowers should go with their dress selections. There
are flower girls who carry flower baskets or bouquets or scatter petals,
with the choice of flowers reflecting the creativity of the bride.
The Flowers
for wedding are carefully chosen to reveal the bride and groom’s tastes
and choices that harmonize with already existing colors of the wedding.
The shape of the flowers is also vital to reflect expression and to draw
everybody’s attention. Traditionally, in the past only white flowers are
used in weddings for the bride’s bouquet as a mark of her purity.
Though
white flowers are still popular, modern day brides want to experiment with
colors to keep the occasion a memorable one for them. Some Brides would
like to go a little bit further in deciding the flowers for their wedding
bouquet by considering the meanings of the flowers. Over the centuries,
certain flowers have acquired specific meanings to convey like the following:
• Apple
Blossom – Hope
• Daisy
- Innocence
• Heather
– Good Luck
• Forget-me-not
– Remembrance
• Myrtle
– Love
• Rose
– Love and Happiness
• Tulip
– Love
• Tulip-red
– I Love You
It is
always essential to consult or employ a florist for floral decorations
of the Church and for the choice of Church Wedding Flowers. Most of the
floral decorations are done a day before when the concerned wedding families
are the busiest. Hence it is wise to approach a professional florist for
help.
Before
approaching the Florist, it is better to decide wedding outfit or the venue
for wedding. This could give a better idea on the style and color
scheme of flowers that is perfect for the outfit.
For Church
weddings, it is better to discuss the decoration of the Church with the
Minister during the first meeting to get information about the Church’s
policies. Some churches do not allow flowers to be brought in while some
supply their own flowers for floral arrangements. Others may allow the
wedding couple to supply the flowers.
Usually
many churches have regular church helpers who arrange the floral displays
and decorate the wedding flowers for display as a contribution to the church
funds. They can bring out the most effective flowers display as they are
familiar with the church. This would be of great help for amateur florists
working in a hectic phase. Alternatively external florists can also arrange
the displays. It is also important to decide the locations for the wedding
flowers in the church. Some popular locations include the Entrance, Lych-gate,
Pew Ends, Isle Ends, Pulpit, Columns, Window ledges, Alter steps, Alter
and Chancel.
When several
weddings are hosted by the church on the same day, you will not have time
to change the flower arrangements. In such cases, the church itself takes
the responsibility of arranging the wedding flowers using the church flower
arrangers and the cost is divided amongst the couples getting wedded the
same day. In these cases, preliminary discussions with those floral arrangers
are a must to make the wedding flowers display, a memorable one. If the
wedding couple have unique ideas about arranging the Church Wedding flowers,
then it may be better for them to change their wedding date to another
day, when only their wedding will be taking place in the church.
Some brides
go for extra touches like drying all the flowers exchanged between the
couple during courtship and engagement and the dried petals are put in
the flower girl’s basket or bouquet, to give a romantic or sentimental
value addition for the day. Some even like to add two extra flowers to
their bouquet, to give one to her mother as she walks down the Aisle and
another to her mother-in-law while returning down the aisle.
Sky is
the limit for the choice of flowers to make your wedding a memorable one.
Lots of online florists are also available to help you reveal your sense
of love and affection through the choice of wedding flowers. |