Weddings have a great meaning to all of us whether we are in the audience experiencing two people share their love or we are the bride and groom.  Being apart of that love even for an instant is important to us.  The wedding party is more involved in the wedding and thus they know the groom and bride more intimately.  Wedding vows are the part of the wedding where we as the audience or wedding party are brought into the most romantic part of the wedding.
 

 
You might say the wedding vows are when the audience and couple feeling the most meaning or vulnerable.  Wedding vows often evoke the tears of the audience and bride.  The audience may recall their own vows during this time as a sort of second pledge to their loved one.  Romance is a word for wedding because the couple shares their most intimate feelings in the most beautiful manner.

Today we are seeing traditional wedding vows merge with the unique.  The wedding couple may choose to incorporate all or part of the long ago vows or create a new wedding vow.  Wedding vows may be poems, book excerpts, or your own words.  Your vows do not have to rhyme to be unique.  They may simply be words derived from your commonalities, your interests, or how you first met.  The traditional words “do you take this man/ woman to be your lawfully wedded …” have evolved into the most poignant words of love.  Your wedding vows must come from the heart.  The meaning of the traditional vows may hold the most important aspect of you.  Be true to you and your partner’s personality, to what brought you together.  Your wedding and your vows are yours alone to keep for the rest of your life.