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Wedding
Vows for the longest time were traditional, provided by the church.
Today we are using our partners and our personalities to find the unique
vows to profess our love. Whether you wish to use traditional wedding
vows or write your own remember to keep the meaning alive. Wedding
vows encompass our love for one another and make promises till death do
us part. Wedding vows are an integral part of the wedding.
It is important to choose the type of wedding vows that will share your
feelings with your partner and audience.
Wedding vows have moved from
the traditional to the humorous, or to the unique. If you find you’re
a traditionalist there is nothing wrong with that. Below are some
examples of traditional wedding vows. Whether you decide to go with
your churches traditions or an adaptation of a traditional vow there are
plenty to choose from. Most often traditional wedding vows include
the ring. These are known as Wedding ring vows.
Below are few examples of
wedding ring vows with a traditional bent.
Example 1 Secular/Non
Denominational Vows for the Ring Exchange:
“I give you this ring as a
symbol of my love and faithfulness. As I place it on your finger, I commit
my heart and soul to you. I ask you to wear this ring as a reminder of
the vows we have spoken today, our wedding day. This ring is a token of
my love. I marry you with this ring, with all that I have and all that
I am
Response:
I will forever wear this ring
as a sign of my commitment and the desire of my heart
I give you this ring to wear
with love and joy, as a ring has no end, neither shall my love for you.
I choose you to be my (wife / husband) this day and forevermore.
This ring I give to you as a
token of my love and devotion to you. I pledge to you all that I am and
all that I will ever be as your (husband/wife). With this ring, I gladly
marry you and join my life to yours.
I give this ring as my gift
to you. Wear it and think of me and know that I love you."
I give you this ring in God's
name, as a symbol of all that we have promised and all that we shall share.
I give you this ring as a visible
and constant symbol of my promise to be with you as long as I live.
I give you this ring as a symbol
of my love for you. Let it be a reminder that I am always by your side
and that I will always be a faithful partner to you.”
Example 1 goes on for a little
while longer with the person sharing his or her feelings on what a ring
means to him or her. Rings are not always as common in weddings as
they once were, but many still choose to share their vows over the exchanging
of rings.
Example 2 Protestant
Wedding Ring Vow:
I give you this ring as a symbol
of my love; and with all that I am and all that I have, I honor you, in
the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
These examples are just some
of the traditional wedding ring vows available. You may decide to
use one of these examples to write your own more original wedding ring
vow. Keep in mind a few tips for writing wedding vows.
As an important part of the
wedding you will want to search yourself for what is appropriate, what
has the most meaning to you and your partner, and what shows your personality.
Ask yourself questions when working on your vows. Know what your
partner wishes. Does your partner want a more traditional vow or
will they find more meaning in your own words? Is your audience going
to appreciate humor or will they be lost and feel left out?
Most of all remember this is
you and your partners wedding. The wedding vows you will speak will
be for them from your heart. You don’t have to lose the meaning of
your vows in sticking with what is most important for your audience.
Again research wedding vows online or books to find your inspiration and
then write from your feelings. You don’t have to let go of the traditional
wedding vows to have something with a little originality. Exchanging
your wedding vows is the most romantic moment of a wedding and the best
place to share your feelings for your partner. Whether you
stay with a traditional wedding ring vow or add your own statements keep
your audience, your partner, and your personality in your vows. |